Who this is for
You have been appointed to a board role and now you are wondering whether you are doing it well, and how you should handle specific issues.
Board life happens in private and feedback is intermittent, so there is no straightforward way to compare notes with anyone doing the same job.
This pathway is for NEDs in their first board years, in any sector and any jurisdiction.
What you will find here
- What does good onboarding look like?
- How to get up to speed: what to read, who to meet, and how long it realistically takes.
- How to read a board pack efficiently, and where risks may hide.
- Board etiquette. When to speak, how often, and how far boards differ from one another.
- What happens outside the meeting, in committees, pre-calls, and one-to-ones with the chair.
- Where the role stops and management begins.
- The difficult moments. Disagreeing with the chair. Doubting the numbers.
- Considering resignation.
- Building a portfolio deliberately: what a second appointment should add, and what to decline.
Not quite you?
Are you still working towards a first appointment? Go to Aspiring NEDs.
Holding a full portfolio? Go to Established NEDs.
Join the community! Always free. All it takes a name and an email address.
Questions people ask
How long will it bebefore I feel useful?
It takes two or three meeting cycles for most people. It comes faster with site visits, time with management outside the room, and reading the previous year of papers and minutes rather than only the current pack.
How often should I speak in my first meetings?
Boards vary widely, so read the room before setting a pattern. One well-placed question generally lands better than several.
What happens outside the formal meeting?
A good deal happens outside the boardroom: Committee work, pre-meeting calls, one-to-ones with the chair, informal soundings, and board dinners. Positions are often shaped before the board meeting rather than during it.
Is it acceptable to contact the chief executive between meetings?
Usually yes, and often expected, though the chair sets the convention. Going directly to management below the executive team can be appropriate but needs to be managed.
How do I challenge without damaging a relationship?
Signal your desire to discuss the topic as part of the agenda rather than raising it cold in the meeting. When discussing, question and test the proposition rather than the person, and ask for the evidence instead of asserting a counter-position. The aim is to surface the option nobody has considered while leaving the executive able to run the organisation.
What is the difference between board and committee work?
Committee work involves deeper technical engagement, more preparation per meeting, and more direct contact with auditors, advisers, and management.
When should I look for a second appointment?
Consider a second appointment once the first one is genuinely under control. The constraint to balance is your capacity during a difficult quarter, rather than during a good one.
How many board seats can one person hold?
There is no universal limit to the number of board seats that someone can hold. Some jurisdictions and regulated sectors cap the number, and institutional investors apply their own judgement.
How do I manage conflicts across more than one board?
Map the overlaps between sectors, customers, and investors before accepting an additional board role. Solicit informal feedback from the Chair, then declare the overlaps early and in writing. Frequent recusal is a signal that the additional appointment is untenable.